More money, more problems? Why rich kids hate mom, dad

USA TODAY: … [Franco Lombardo] said wealthy kids hate their parents for three common reasons. First, wealthy parents don’t say “no” enough. “A child grows up with a sense that they get whatever they want,” Lombardo says. “When they go out into the world and the world tells them ‘no,” they’re angry. And they resent their parents.”

The second cause is time. Wealthy parents are often absent parents, and the kids feel abandoned. When the parents try to make up lost time with money, the kids get even angrier. “Money is the wrong currency to pay back lost time. You make up lost time with time.”

The third reason is society. The culture at large, Lombardo says, makes fun of rich kids. So parents tell their kids at an early age to hide their wealth. When the kids grow up, they feel that a big part of their identity has to remain hidden — and they blame their parents…  (more)

 EDITOR:   If the parents have and demonstrate good values, we think most kids will not be alienated.   However, there is a wide gene pool and not all kids and their parents are going to get along any more than we are certain to get along with our next door neighbor.

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