[Re Deprived of a Day in Court], I believe Ben is doing very important work in discovering and weeding out injustice in the court.
Ben knows there are good judges and bad judges, the bad being influenced by the millions of dollars the VAWA laws provide. He also knows there are good fathers and mothers and bad fathers and mothers. His fight has not always been an all or nothing fight, but a fight for justice for those who deserved to have some and not to be ignored for being a man. Children are the losers when these rights are ignored and when sometimes the “good” parent is painted black and loses the most important thing in the world to them.
If you are at all familiar with the Mary Richardson Kennedy case, there are women who put on a good public persona and truly make the lives of their family members a living hell. This is called a Personality disorder and there are millions neglected as children in some way, men and women, suffering from this. This is important because many people in bad marriages didn’t know there was even such a thing and usually blame themselves in some way, and if you’re married to one of these people and are looking for a divorce to save your sanity, you’re often in for the fight of your life.
The facts are that many men have been deprived of their rights and lost their children to women who learned to manipulate the current laws for their own ends, with the legions of help provided to do just this. Men don’t have equal rights in these cases, (in many instances) and that is what needs to be changes.
When you look at how violently some of the people confronted by Ben react, you have to know that something is wrong here. Ben may be perceived as coming on too strong, but its what he has learned after being confronted by a wall of corruption. To say there is no corruption here is also naive.
Now, Ben is fighting for the right to film in the public areas of court buildings and I think most people who have nothing to hide should be fine with that. The only ones getting filmed are the ones who have problems with that. If you don’t stand up for your rights, they will slowly get taken away, when it benefits someone in power.
You all should be thankful Ben has done what he has done on all of your behalf’s. Children deserve more and so does Ben. I encourage you to support this man who has given up so much to help others.
Ben Vonderhide is nothing more than a bully with a camera and a crazed personal agenda. His tactics have done more harm than good.
No one with real influence on this issue associates with him. He’s divisive and holds a bitter distaste for women.
Not someone who can truly lead the campaign to effect real, and long-overdue, change.
I’m so tired of Ben’s minions using the reaction of people he decides to ambush as evidence of their guilt!
Picture yourself in your back yard gardening. Your mind is a million miles away thinking about what you’re gonna have for dinner, or what your kids said to you that morning and out of nowhere this loudmouth person appears yelling questions at you and moving rapidly towards you yelling louder all the time. In most people, this kinf of ambush, caught completely off guard triggers the fight or flight response. and if you get up and start moving away, he follows you yelling all the time. If your fight response is triggered instead and you allow yourself to become angry and yell back, then of course you’re guilty of something too.
B.s. these are normal responses to the lowest form of “journalism” the ambush reporter.
You have to realize that the people who work in the courthouse and wherever else he finds people to ambush may not be in their back yard but their minds are completely on something else when out of nowhere he shows up yelling.
I’ll never forget the look on Rep. Katie True’s face as DJ was accosting her. Looked like fear to me. I’d be willing to bet that if he would have called and made an appointment to do an interview with most all of these people you wouldn’t have seen any of the fear/anger results that he seems to so love to capture.
Guess that wouldn’t be good for his casting them as demons though would it now.