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…1. He only makes plans for the immediate or short term. He is always ready to make a date for tonight or this weekend but rarely makes plans for the distant future. For instance, you ask him to plan a romantic vacation for next year and he acts hesitantly telling you, “That sounds great, but let’s wait until it gets closer before booking the flight and hotel.”
2. He rarely sings your praises to his friends and family. This can be spotted when you are around those closest to him and they say something to the effect of, “Wow, Bob never told us how smart and talented you are!” A man who is serious about you and your future together raves about you….
Before making any final decisions, talk with your man about his long-term intentions. You could broach the subject by saying, “Bob, we have been dating for a year now, I want to check in with you and see where you see our relationship going in the future.” Be careful to really hear what he is saying and not what you want him to say, as this is a common trap many women fall into… (more)
